Rediscovering Joy: Reflections After Watching IF
I just finished watching the movie IF, and it really got me thinking. Are there any films that resonate deeply with you and bring things to the surface? For me, IF captures the innocence of childhood and the universal desire to be loved and seen. It’s a reflective experience that prompts me to examine my own life and the person I want to be.
Over the years, I’ve dedicated myself to helping others become the best versions of themselves. This journey has taught me discipline and sacrifice, and I’ve had some phenomenal adventures along the way. But watching this movie reminded me that there’s another level I need to reach—a level of love for my wife and kids that goes beyond just being their provider.
I’ve realized I’ve been so focused on adult responsibilities that I’ve pushed aside the joy that comes from truly engaging with my family. There’s always a justification for being an adult—it’s my duty as a father. But that responsibility shouldn’t overshadow the importance of being a dad and a husband.
IF hit home for me in this way: day by day, week by week, year by year, I grow older, but my kids are still children (for now). They deserve to experience the joy of childhood fully. It’s a reminder to embrace the moments we have with them, to laugh, play, and be present.
As we navigate the challenges of adulthood, let’s not forget to cultivate the joy that comes from being fully engaged with our loved ones. Life is fleeting, and those innocent moments with our children are the ones we’ll cherish forever.
To truly manage our time and ensure we’re making room for what matters, consider scheduling a call with me today. Together, we can work through strategies to balance your responsibilities while embracing the joy in your life. Let’s find that equilibrium, so you can be the spouse and parent your family deserves.